Dom(me)s of the world:
Obviously, y’all are very important to me as educators, lovers and friends.
And every now and then, one of you springs up (or for some reason, hordes of you, where I’m involved) who doesn’t understand that a sub will have boundaries. Just like anyone else. If it’s unacceptable under vanilla circumstances, it’s probably unacceptable under all circumstances.
I’m going to post this as a reminder: tops, think hard about whether you do any of these things. Bottoms, think about whether you’ve witnessed this behavior anywhere recently.
Kinksters are in a unique position to be pioneers of a better consent culture. Can we please fucking work on that?